You have searched and found the perfect date for your reunion or your party or whatever function it is for which you needed a date. When you get on facebook, there are several posts on her wall from her ex-boyfriend. He sounds aggressive and you are not sure how to handle the situation. Even if you really like her, you may be better off to find a different date for that event you are planning to take her to. In fact, you may re-examine your relationship with your date and put it all on hold until her situation is resolved, legally if need be. If he is as aggressive as he sounds, he may just take his anger out on you.
There are disturbing messages you have been reading on your date’s facebook wall. They are a little vague and your name is not mentioned but you worry that she is making fun of you. This can be a big mistake. Misinterpreting someone else’s messages can ruin a budding relationship in an instant. Trust is not something to be given lightly and you are not at any stage yet where trust is coming into play but you should be able to trust your date enough that she is not going out with you either out of pity or for what she can get. Don’t misinterpret messages. Instead, ask her about it to clear the air.
Little Insecurities Can Grow Into Huge Ones
If you are in the dating world on the internet where so many personalities, both strong and weak, are vying for the best date, you need to let go of your insecurities. If she is the date of your dreams, don’t worry that her ex-boyfriend may have been a wealthy stock broker. She obviously is not with him any longer. She may be looking for someone exactly like you. By being a little insecure and perhaps reading vague messages between the two, you may lose your objective and your date as well.