What to talk to girls about

What to actually say to a girl once she replies – that’s the trick. Actually,  this is where you demonstrate value and after the opener it is time for your routines, stories; basically the “material” that will make you a success in online dating.

At some point you will like to know what she does for a living  and all that – and trust me, there are MANY lame comments out there, so be the one who stands out with interesting questions and great routines.

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What I talk to girls about is normally what they do, where they’re from, what their favorite bar is. EXTREMELY boring! But I have a take on it…. and this is really good:

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Normal conversation:

Guy: Where do you live?

Girl: I live in Tribeca, New york. You?

Guy: I live in Queens. What do you do for a living?

Girl: I’m an accountant. And you?

Guy: I’m a programmer…….

Girl: OK

Guy: Uhmm, so, you come here often?

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I have had that conversation so many times in online dating. And it’s so embarrasing! Here’s what you could do – turn every question into a quiz:

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Guy: I was thinking about asking you were you live, but I think I can guess it! Can I try?

Girl: hehe, sure!

Guy: Okay, let’s see – judging from your picture and the way you spell…hmmm… from (some really dodgy neighbourhood)?

Girl: Noooo, come oooon!

Guy: Okay. Manhattan.

Girl: u got it

Guy: Now you guess where I live. 10 points if you get it

Girl: 10 points? For what?

Guy: Uhm – let’s say at 50 you can buy me coffee!

Girl: haha, ok -Manhattan too?

Guy: WHAAAAAT? No way, I got more class than that…

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This goes on for a while. She starts to get interested and want’s to know more about you. She asks:

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Girl: Hey, what do you do for a living?

Guy: haha, here we go again! I’m sure you can guess this one – it involves guitars! (or whatever)

Girl: Hmmm – musician?

Guy: Nope, not quite there… blablablabl

Guy: Hey, let me guess what you do – another 10 points up for grabs. Truck driver?

Girls. Noooo!

Guy: Okay, okay. Give me a clue…

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Another spin on it, if the guessing gets a little too much:

Girl: What do you do for a living?

Guy: Okay – I’ll help you with that one and give you two options: 1) pro skateboarder or 2) something with guitars…

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1 – Start: Dating guide!

2 – Adding the “correct” Facebook photo albums!

3 – Fine tune your basic profile information

4 – Browse some Facebook dating applications

5 – How to start a conversation

6 – What to talk to girls about

7 – Time to be interesting

8 – You should start to build raport

9 – Now, take it offline!