Mid game routine

Hi guys!

Most of my posts are about opening up the conversation. Which is important as that’s what people tell me they are most in doubt of.

But today I want to tell you about a simple routine that I apply “mid game” – meaning after having opened and before asking them to meet up in real life.

The other day I went to a club with a friend and they had a DJ playing. There was an extra charge to get in so I thought: “Great! This means there’s a Facebook event for it!”. Which, of course, there was.

I see a profile picture of a girl I… wouldn’t mind dating and I send her en email. Back and forth – all according to the good old dating guide – and I start being cheerful. This is mid game and if you pass this, she will accept a date. For sure.

This is easy – and it’s a rip off from Neill Strauss, the guy that wrote “The Game”.

Here goes:

Me: hehe, you’re kinda funny – I like that! But now that you’re soooo smart – then let’s play a game. If I win, you gotta come clean my fridge once – it’s easy: I’ll ask you 5 questions and you have to answer incorrectly to all of them. Deal?

Her. Hahaha, clean your fridge?? And what do I get if I win?

Me: Huge ice cream, lady.

Her: haha, okay. Game on!!!!

Me: okay… what DJ played in the weekend?

Her: Tiesto! (which it wasn’t = she wins)

Me: okay… What was the club called?

Her: Club Heaven (which it wasn’t = she wins)

Me: Okay, okay… What’s the guitarist from Guns and Roses called?

Her: Ricky James!

Me: argh… okay. Fuuuuck – was that 4? No it was 3, wasn’t it?

Her: yes – come on, 2 more!

Me: haha, you’re right – it WAS 3! Ahhh, that fridge sure looks dirty form here…

Pretty simple but soo powerful for online dating – remember to include it when you fish for facebook girls!