Be interesting

Be interesting and build rapport – it’s related to step 6 but here you take it further. This is your chance to gently let her know that you’re active, that you do sports, that you have success and that women like you.

IF the conversation runs dry, then don’t be shy to throw something completely new in there. I have found that in online dating, saying one of the following will often result in a fun conversation and you being more interesting:

Juicebar routine:

Guy: Hey, all that normal talk makes me sleepy – I think it’s time you and me we move on. Let’s take the big step – let’s get a juice bar in the Caribbean! You will handle the juice and I’ll hang out on the beach with the sign pointing towards the juice bar. Deal?

Girl: WHAT?! No way – YOU can do the juices and I’ll do the tanning!!!

Guy: Haha, we gotta make a plan – maybe take turns living the healthy life/ living the good life? blablabla

And so on. Another great little trick for online dating is this one:

Bank robbery opener

Guy: Hey, I actually wanted to ask you something. Do you have a driver’s license?

Girl: Uhm yea, why?

Guy: Here’s the deal – I’m robbing a bank with a friend and the driver just bailed… you in if you get the share the driver should have had?

Girl: eerrrrrr – how much?

Guy: 2%

Girl: hahaha, I want 5… bla bla bla

This is GOLD – and she’ll think you’re really fun and interesting. Perfect for online dating . At this point, you could ask her out – but take one step back and build rapport, meaning finding stuff you have en common to make her feel comfortable around you. Remember, online dating still make some girls feel a bit insecure so help her feel okay with you first.